How
To Make The husband and wife The Harmony?
In
a relationship, especially for married couples, affection and love between them
is an important role for the sake of harmonious relations and healthy. Although
sometimes disputes can not be avoided. Well, that harmonious marital
relationship is maintained, there are some healthy ways that can be done and
has been proven scientifically in order to keep relations harmonious couples
1.
Much less attention interact
ago
This tactic described by David
Lieberman, a human behavior expert. He presented a study on the practical
stimulus in a positive interaction with someone. "Feel free to always pay attention
to the couple and show positive interactions. When the he began comfortable
with what you're doing, start to reduce attention to her,". It is said
Lieberman, this way it does not directly apply the law of scarcity in which
people will want what he can not have.
2. at
each other
Measure love scientifically been done by
Zick Rubin, a psychologist from Harvard University to calculate the amount of
time spent for the pair looked at each other. The results proved that the
couple who are in love look at each other for 75% of the overall time while
they talk and would very rarely look the other way except when they are
disturbed. "Stare at his eyes while speaking, this is to trick their
brains in order to recognize the love and affection that glows when other
people look at him for a long time," said Rubin. At first neural network
produces phenylethylamin (PEA), a type of amphetamine that is automatically
secreted when someone is in love. Indeed, this will make the hands sweat, heart
pounding and stomach that feels uncomfortable.
3. Do
not Easy Turning
Another important finding from Rubin.
Couples who are in love will take a long time to look away to others who had
just joined him. "Look at your eyes and bolt. If, suddenly there is a join
in your conversation, leaving little time to stare into her eyes for a moment,
then turned to a new person joins. This will help the brain to produce PEA and
make him a little flutter , "said Leil Lownes, Relationship Expert.
4. practicing
Pupillometrics
Research shows that a person's pupils will dilate
automatically when seeing someone he loves, but large pupils turned out to
actually make a person more attractive. Studies at the University of Chicago,
United examine this with two photos of a woman giving identical but different. In
one photo, the larger female pupils. Then, the image is shown in some men. As a
result, photos of women with larger pupils were far more interesting. Indeed,
the pupil of the eye can not be lied to and can not be consciously controlled.
However, this can be conditioned in the room such as a more dim, pupils will
tend to be larger.
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